COOL-CAROL

" feel like singin'...err carolin' darrlin'..."

......Chestnuts roasting on an open fire,

Jack Frost nipping on your nose,

Yuletide carols being sung by a choir,

And folks dressed up like Eskimos...
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" Of course we look COOL

...Eskimos always do! "

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Fish skin boots!

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have you been naughty or nice?

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...unlike the French kiss!

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....And so I'm offering this simple phrase,

To kids from one to ninety-two,

Although its been said many times, many ways,

A very Merry Christmas to you...

FFA-LALALALA LA LA LA LA... LA !!!.

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TRIVIA : Chestnuts roasting on an open fire is definitively called the Christmas Song. The lovely music and lyrics were composed by Torme and Wells in 1946. The most popular recording of this truly great Christmas song, Chestnuts roasting on an open fire was recorded by Nat King Cole. The strong imagery in the words to this Christmas song are also complimented by such sentiments as reflected in one of its lines "from kids from from one to ninety-two" which encompass the essence of the family Christmas. The notion that a traditional Christmas should be white is also profligated in the lyric of this Christmas song, Chestnuts roasting on an open fire. Click HERE for the complete lyrics..

At the end of last century, there were an estimated 117,000 Eskimo's living in Greenland, Denmark, Alaska, Canada and Siberia. Eskimos are called different names depending on where they live. In Alaska they can be called either Eskimo or Inuit, in Canada they are called Inuit and in Greenland they are known as Kalaadlit. Their similar languages, characteristics and cultures link these communities. Eskimo were thought to be related to American Indians, but it is now known that they originally came from Asia. Scientists worked this out from their blood type and their small hands and feet, which is a predominant trait in Asian countries. Blood type is hereditary, that means it is passed on through your family, and all Eskimo have blood type B.Eskimo culture was completely adapted to the cold Arctic conditions and harsh winters with temperatures around minus 40 degrees Fahrenheit and only a glimmer of sunlight at dawn and dusk. Eskimo have only one word for snow and that is aput, but they have many words to describe the type of snow such a powdery or compacted... - via Silkhouse.co.UK

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ICy BLUEs

BUNDLE UP, IT'S GOING TO BE A BUMPY RIDE? Is it too early to get the winter blues... In the winter months, some of us may feel sluggish and get the usual melancholy sad feelings — also known as "Seasonal Affective Disorder" yes, the dreadful S.A.D for short...appropriate name for this boo-boo feeling don't you think?

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The day is getting shorter and the cold dark night gets even longer...The Christmas lights are quite pretty though... Busy crowds always on the rush and some can even be blatantly rude...

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Before I go on with my rants, my apology- I have a commitment issue with this blog world... I blame the usual suspects my slow computer?! (seems easier to blame it on others or even something rather than myself!) Alright, alright... I admit- my bad time management and organization skills... I simply unable to post as much lately... also replying back to all the sweet comments or emails received from all of you wonderful people... Thank you and hoping for your kind understanding...
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Honestly, I have been very busy and simply just too tired lately... too much on my plate so to speak...a busy season, trying to get everything done perfectly...(I know...nothing can ever be perfect! I settle for almost perfect???!) So exhausted...Let me tell you- falling asleep on oatmeal breakfast is just not a pretty sight! (although I heard it's good for our skin??!) I really admire those who can juggle their busy schedules in life... My salute to you bloggers out there who can manage to post daily and also work full time, a dog, a cat and a family to take care of! How do you do it? Sometimes I also wonder; How does Martha Stewart does it all... Ahhh YES! I know, she has personal assistants and those assistants have their assistants too! "Hi, meet my my assistant's assistant!" Hee...Just love to be able to say that!
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In the meantime, my LIST of 'things to do' seems to grow longer...there is only me, myself and I... everyone I know have their own sets of busy schedules... some of my friends even have their kids in the whole picture... I salute you too, hard working mothers out there! I thought the holiday season is a time of love, togetherness and – who are we kidding?

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My Christmas shopping is still not done... less than 2 weeks now and counting down! Just hope that's plenty of time to join the mad 'circus'...and enter the pressure cooker world! It's hectic... Just the other day, I was too preoccupied and stressed out (definitely not a good combo!) ...I went out in the cold and had forgotten to wear my coat... I didn't even realize it until my nipples started to get as hard as golf balls from the freezing cold! ...Not only that, I also had misplaced my fresh milk in my kitchen cabinet instead of putting it back to the fridge! ...Quite scary! I am losing my focus...errr MIND! ...stress-stress-stress please go away!
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I know why some creatures hibernate during this cold season... they are avoiding this busy-busy Holiday season! Am I experiencing an early S.A.D? Hope not! ...the type of depression that recurs during fall-winter and abates with spring arrival... All I know is that I'm having a downshift in mood at the moment... The pressure to impress and please others has started to consume me... 'The happiest season of all...' as the carol goes? Can't feel it at the moment...more like the busiest...
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' I'm dreaming of a white Christmas lalala...' I need to get enough sleep! Would also love to take a minimum of 30 minutes(an hour is even better!) every day to just kick back and relax by myself...no distractions! ...sipping a cup of hot tea(decaffeinated of course) ...listen to some soothing Christmas music by the fire (what fire?!) My home town just banned wood burning now! No more crackling sound from the fireplace, but we might save the ozone layer?! Whoopee!! How can I roast the chestnuts now...again there goes the famous carol!. I'm sure this alone-time will help to recharge my batteries...another word I really need a holiday from this Holiday Season?..
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" Oh Lord...forgive me, help me to 'unveil'... and see the true meaning of Christmas...I pray for a better perspective and a good healthy balance in my life... need Your guidance and wisdom...how do I celebrate Your birthday??? "
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This is my plan...Firstly, I need to pull to the curbside and stop the engine! Time to understand and appreciate the true meaning of Christmas... It' a message of God's gift to the world... Jesus Christ a savior was born. To the Christians the salvation has begun... to celebrate the birth of the Savior. We should celebrate and decorate our houses, not so much to impress others or win the neighborhood contest! What is this season all about? is it all about the commercialism, is it about all the Christmas parties, decorations and gifts to impress and compete with each other... or even worst, getting more credit card debts in the process?

Have to slow down... and BIG YES to Simplify, simplify, simplify.... If I get pulled in too many directions during this busy holiday...I'll SNAP! My real problem has always been saying "no" to people. I'm easily easily pressured or feel guilty somehow... I usually end up taking on more than I can handle...then bitter resentments usually follow... I Must learn to simply and politely decline, "...so sorry, NO I can't" just say it nicely but firmly?...errr this is not so easy! Well, I'm trying this year... 'NO means NO!'...to activities or engagements that I don’t have the time or energy to undertake. Yes???! errr...???

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I need to remind myself that I should not 'drain' myself with more unnecessary schedules... prioritize the important list and take a moment to breathe or else I might end up in a toilet bowl and get flushed down the drain! Instead of trying to do everything at once, I should separate my tasks and tackle them one at a time... I've been known as 'a chicken without its head' running around aimlessly in all direction- North South East West all at once! Not a pretty sight!! Hope I would be less likely to get sidetracked or have my mind wander to the wrong zip codes! Where was I???

I do appreciate the friends who have always been there for me... true friends are so hard to find these days...understanding and caring friends are even harder to find... hilariously funny, even 'hardest' to find now! So thankful to have such great & funny friends! Some great laughter should always be on my list!

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Having some quality time with family this Holiday season? Oh yes... the usual family drama that goes with it! In my family there is always one drama after another it seems...the usual 'soap opera' saga minus the murder plots! When family members cram together under one roof, it is not uncommon for some trivial misunderstanding...hurts and then tempers flaring like wild fire, especially with the added holiday stress... I try my best to behave and keep the peace banner waving high so everyone can see! Maybe I should make everyone dress up as angels?! ...I understand some of us might not be very close to the family members, perhaps it is a good opportunity to rebuild the bridge and break some walls this season? Let's celebrate this season with some Forgiving Spirit? 'F' you! is not just the infamous 4 letter word you know..."Forgive you..." Yes...Forgive one another and try to sincerely mean it this time! hee!! I really would like to see my family grow up one day! We are just immature bunch! Hee!!

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The Holiday Season can be particularly depressing for those who recently lost someone they love...one of my friends just lost her mother this year and I know she is having a hard time right now. I have to recognize that her feelings of sadness and loneliness are normal... always good to allow herself to express the emotions openly... I won’t 'force' her to be happy and put on a Miss Smiley Face...just because it’s a holiday season...

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Well, It's time to bundle up & get cozy and warm... preparing for my shoe string budget, my imperfect family and the physical /mental /spiritual demands. I truly have enough on my plate during this holiday season... without having to deal with the added unnecessary stress... Really need to cope with the stress level wayyy down from now on... I have to put myself back in the holiday SPIRIT and having the true meaning of Christmas. Good to remember that we all may not be able to make this holiday season perfect, but we can all certainly check this off the list now... Let's go ahead and check “eliminate holiday stress” OFF our “to do” list.... and try our best to...

SHALL WE...

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What do you do to avoid the hectic-madness-stress???

Hope this question does not add any stress... .

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